1 post tagged “baby”

turning on my internet will bring me to this msn home page and there was an article which a lady spoke how about her feelings when pple asked why is she not a mummy yet. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/19762056/site/newsweek/?GT1=10150

so as i was reading it, i was so so amused that KPO pple are everywhere regardless of ethnic group, location and age! LOL. i am not yet that sensitive when pple ask me the same qn. in fact, i had grown too used to it. i will say that i can't have baby lor. simple as that. it will nevertheless draw on those sympathetic looks from those pple. then a strings of other qns will pop out. had u check ard? ur prob or ur hubby's? go try this and that lar.

me? i am resign to it liao. if God wants to give it to me, i will be very happy. if God daddy says no, then i know He must be planning something else in my life than that lor. although i do wish to have a baby, i am leaving it to God. i know some of my friends and co-workers had sort of stop asking me baby related qns or even reframed from touching that area.

but my pts are a cute lot! having been a mother, a grandmother and some even great grandmothers; they never fails to offer advices and funny words to comfort this empty wombed me. some of the example:

1- go to this temple XXX and pray lor. last time whenever i go, i will take 1 white flower from the temple vase and i will give birth to a boy and if i take a red one, i get a girl. (mind u! this pt gave birth to 13 children!!)

2- oh! i know of this person XXX that massage barren pple and after that they all gave birth to babies leh! (yah, like as if they might give birth of pigs or dogs sia)

3- aiyo... never mind lar. nowadays no children also good can have time to go travel and stuff. (this auntie got great grand children liao! easy for u to say lor... hahaha)

4- no babies? no problem. just buy lots of insurance and invest well. next time no need for others to support u also got enough to eat. (hahaha... sound like she is going to pull out a policy and ask me to buy anytime! hahaha)

5- is it the way u and ur hubby do it, is wrong? u know must try all the different positions. u know last time i also try very hard. then when he enter from XXXX i got preg. leh. u should try too. (hahaha... ah ma!! ah ma!!! i nearly faint imagining a 70++ couple doing it!! hahaha... too much detail!!!)

6- don't worry ah girl. u so young, wait lar. one day sure got one. i will pray for u. come ah ma touch ur tummy. *silent* ok lar. sure got one someday. (hahaha... no1-ah ma, me not young lor. no2-wait long long sure got?! hahaha... u pulling my leg huh? no3-but u pray that god not the same as my God leh... no4-aiyo touch tummy can get preg sia! last time my mummy only say hug hug can get preg leh! u more power sia! hahahaha....)